God's Dream for Your Life, Part 2

Our heavenly Father has a dream for every one of His children, and God’s dream is to make you like His – write the word – Son.

God gives us a very clear picture of what His dream is for your life in Romans chapter 12.
God’s desire, God’s will for every single follower is that they would become a Romans 12 Christian.

Follow along if you will. Notice what it says in verse 1. “Therefore I urge you, brothers, in view of God’s mercy to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God. This is your spiritual act of worship.”

And that answers one of the biggest questions that you’ll ever face in your life. And that question is this: how do you give God what He wants the most? And you know what you’re going to learn? He wants you. He wants you.

My observation is in most Christian’s lives there’s a missing ingredient. And the missing ingredient in most Christian’s lives is power. We’re anemic. If your life isn’t surrendered, you don’t experience His power.

Becoming a Romans 12 Christian begins in your relationship with God by being surrendered to Him. But notice, beginning in verse 2, it says, “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you’ll be able to test and approve what God’s will is – that which is good and pleasing and perfect.”

You know the question, the big question in life this verse answers? How do you get the very best from God? Verse one answers, “How do you give God what He really wants?” Verse two says, “If God really loves me and He died for me and He rose from the dead, He has a plan for my life.” How do you tap into that? We’ll explain from this verse exactly how it works.

And the missing ingredient I find in the great majority of Christians that I talk to is not just lack of power because of an unsurrendered life, but a lack of peace.

Beginning in verse 3 and through 8, we learn that in our relationship to ourselves, God desires a sober self-assessment. Notice the little phrase, “for by the grace of God.”

“I say to every man among you, don’t think more highly of yourself than you ought to think, but think as to have sound or sober judgment as God has allotted to each a measure of faith.”
In the sovereignty of God, He wants you to have an accurate, sober view of yourself.

God wants you to see yourself the way He sees you – dearly loved, forgiven. And you know the big question this answers? “How do you come to grips with the real you?”

This section will teach you how to come to grips with the real you, and then it supplies the missing ingredient.

Verse 1 supplies the power, when you understand it. Verse 2 supplies the peace. And verse 3 supplies your purpose, because see, God made you specifically. You are His workmanship. You’re created in Christ Jesus unto a good work, which before the foundations of the earth… So guess what. He’s gifted you to do something specific.

Do you know how freeing it is to understand, “This is why I’m here. My purpose is this. And this is what I’m good at and this is what I’m not good at. This is where I need help and this is where I need to step out and let God use me.” It’s revolutionary. It’s absolutely revolutionary.

I have a good friend over in Santa Cruz and he was a fellow entrepreneur. He ran half of the United States of one of those really, really giant companies and saw that he was kind of losing touch with his family and the travel, and so he decided that he would start a business of his own. And so he developed these, about 26 of these stores around, kind of like Jo-Ann’s or Michael’s, but he called it by his wife’s name, which I thought was very nice.

And he became a mentor of mine. I’d spent a lot of time and he would help me. And I was teaching through, I was sort of in the infant stages of my journey about a sober self- assessment and a part of that understanding was what your primary spiritual gift is. And he went through that.

And you know what? People are people. And in his world, okay, he was a good business guy. He became very successful. When you’re very successful in business, he made a lot of money. So there he was a good leader and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Because you know what his whole like 25 years of church experience was? Sitting on committees, in meetings, where everyone wanted to talk about money and then counting money afterwards. And if there was ever a capital campaign, “Dick, you do it.”

And he said, “I hated it all.” And we went through a journey and he discovered his spiritual gift. And he discovered what he likes to do is launch things, and what he likes to do is equip people, and what he likes to do is bring together networks. And so he said, “You know what? I just decided I’m not going to be on anymore boards.” This was a spiritual decision. He said, “This is what I’m going to do.”

And he actually was the one that launched Living on the Edge. It was his idea. He’s the guy that got it going. And I can now tell you four or five, six, seven, eight different ministries, he’s launched. And he just says there’s such joy when you figure out how God made you and you fulfill your purpose.

Do you know yours? Do you realize how so much of Christendom is like people have another job, and often a job you don’t like, and often a job you don’t like and you’re actually not doing very well at? That’s not true spirituality. True spirituality is relational, it’s practical, it’s measurable. It’s normal people like us that are surrendered to God, on a day where we actually cross that line, and then progressively we’re separate from the world’s values. And then we develop a sober self-assessment and we start to discover our purpose and why we’re here. And it actually gets downright exciting.

The fourth thing you see is that it’s a relationship of believers, is it’s serving in love. True spiritual maturity is, “Love must be sincere.” The word literally is “without a mask or without hypocrisy.” “Hate what is evil; cling to what is good; be devoted to one another in brotherly love.”

And then the rest of that passage, we’ll unpack it and it’ll talk about honoring one another and giving preference to one another. And it’s really about people that actually know each other, and like each other, and sacrifice for one another, and pray for one another, and do whatever it takes to help one another. And it’s like doing life in community. But you serve in love, but it’s real love. It’s not a meeting I go to. It’s not, “Okay, we made it three out of four times this month. I’m feeling really good about that checkbox. I read the Bible four times this week…”

It’s so different when it’s a relationship with this God who loves you so much, and you open His Word with a sense of holy trembling, that He would so love and want to speak to you today, and He would love to hear what’s on your mind and on your heart. And actually, His Spirit lives inside of these other people called other fellow Christians, and He’s deposited gifts in them, and He wants to hug you through them, and He wants to love you through them, and He wants to hold you accountable through them. He wants to encourage you through them. And are you ready? He wants you to do that right back.

And there’s this amazing thing in the early church. Remember what Jesus said? “A new commandment I give unto you” – to the early disciples, John 13 – “that you love one another” – how – “just as I’ve loved you. By this” – not by buildings, not by external morality – “by this the world will know that the Father has sent Me, by how you love one another.”

And this section of true spirituality from Romans 12 answers the question that we all struggle with: how do I experience authentic community? Boy, there are so many lonely people. I don’t mean just being in a group, I don’t mean just being a member of something. I mean, how do I experience where there’s someone or two or three in my life that I can unzip my heart and I can risk putting it out there and I can tell them things and I won’t be condemned and they’ll support me and love me. And when I’m going through a horrendous time, they’ll be there for me and they know I’d be there for them.

You ready? Having some friends who would literally – not figuratively, not metaphorically – friends who would die for you. That’s authentic community. And I’ll tell you what. When you get around people that love each other like that, it’s powerful.

You know what’s missing in most Christians’ lives? It’s not just power, it’s not just purpose. You know what’s missing in most Christians’ lives? Experiencing God’s presence. Somehow it’s like we do these things and we hope God will do this and like He’s out there somewhere, somehow, someway. Do you know God’s primary plan apart from when you read His Word or you’re talking to Him or meditating? Do you know His primary way to manifest His presence? It’s through other Christians.

I mean, if an angel comes at the middle of the night at the foot of your bed tonight, go for it. Tell me about it later. And if he hugs you and fixes you a meal and says, “Tell me what’s really going on inside because I really want to hear because I really care,” God bless you.

But for 99.9% of all the rest of us, you know how Jesus is going to show up in your life? He’s going to show up in the body of another person. A man or a woman or a fellow student where there’s kind of this chemistry, and this safety, and this love, and you’re devoted to one another in brotherly love, and you give preference to one another in honor, and you do life together.

The final portion of becoming a Romans 12 Christian isn’t just your relationship with God, or your relationship with the world, or yourself, or believers but the evil in the world – relationships with nonbelievers that are hostile to the gospel. And unfortunately, sometimes relationships with believers that are evil and hostile toward you. But it’s supernaturally responding to evil with good.

Hear the apostle Paul. You can just hear him reaching into the Sermon on the Mount by the Spirit of God. “Bless those who persecute you. Bless and curse not. Never take your own revenge, beloved, but leave room for the wrath of God. Vengeance is Mine. I will repay.” If your enemy’s hungry, what do you do? Feed him. If your enemy’s thirsty, what do you do? Give him a drink. “Do not be overcome with evil.”

See, we’re humans. Evil is going to come into all of our lives on your little journey on this earth. Some of you have had more than others. You’re going to get ripped off, you’re going to get betrayed, you’re going to have mates walk out on you, you’re going to have kids say terrible things to you, you’re going to…people who you’ve loaned money and they promised to pay it back and guess what – they’re not going to.

And there’s evil that’s sort of systemic. You can love God with all your heart. Guess what. Christians that love God with all their heart get cancer. They get hit by drunk drivers. They get swooped into down economies and lose their homes. And they’ve been faithful with their finances. Evil is coming your way.

So what’s true spirituality? What I love about what God says–true spirituality is how the Spirit of God lives the life of Christ out in relationship with my Heavenly Father, with the world, with myself, with believers, and then with unbelievers when the raw deals are coming my way.

The question it answers is, “How do you overcome the evil aimed at you?” And the thing that most Christians – listen carefully – most Christians have missing in their life is perspective.

We all could probably take out a 3x5 card or get out your mobile device and press the little app where it says notes and we could probably all list four or five people that used to walk with God that don’t walk with God now – after their mate walked out on them, after the car wreck, after they got ripped off at work. Right?

See, there’s a reason that almost 25% of the book of Genesis is dedicated to the life of Joseph, because Joseph is a picture of true spirituality, of: how do you respond at the evil aimed at you? And it wasn’t easy–he was betrayed, falsely accused, forgotten, sold. But that little phrase – “the Lord was with Joseph” – and do you know what Joseph had? Perspective.

Joseph kind of took – even though they didn’t have them in those days, follow it – Joseph took the helicopter of spiritual perspective and in those days in prison or falsely accused, he just kept taking that helicopter up really, really, really high and looking at all of it and saying, “You know something? There’s a sovereign God that either decreed or allowed this, and He loves me, and I don’t know how it’s going to work out but if I don’t bail out and trust Him, He’ll work it for my good and He’ll do in me and through me what could never happen. And so I refuse to be bitter, I refuse to not forgive, I refuse to become a victim, I refuse to let the world shape me. I will trust my God because I have perspective.”

And he would say to his brothers, at the very end of the book, “You meant it for evil, but God meant it for good.” If all those difficult things wouldn’t have happened, he would have not been the second most powerful person in all the world and he would have not saved the Jewish nation.

And God has a game plan and you have a Joseph story to live out. It’ll be a big one for some, a smaller one for others. Are you starting to catch what true spirituality’s all about? It’s about relationships. It’s measurable. You can measure, “Am I surrendered? Am I separate from the world’s values? Do I have a sober self-assessment? Am I serving in love? Am I supernaturally responding to evil with good?” And then it helps you ask and answer those questions.

And little by little, as we walk through this together, you will begin to experience–as you trust and obey by faith–God’s power, God’s peace, God’s purpose, God’s presence, and God’s perspective. And that’s why I’m so excited. And you know what I love about this?

Guess whose book we got this out of? This text, it’s just the Bible. It’s true!

What Jesus said to them, He said to us, “If you abide in My Word” – and that word just means if you take it in for the purpose of applying it by faith – “then you’ll know the truth and the truth will set you free.”

As you turn over the notes, I want to close with this one very important perspective. There is a danger on our journey. Like every journey, there are dangers. But there’s a danger on our journey to begin to very subtly begin to think that sort of the R12 journey or the Romans 12 journey is like a moral code and a set of bars to live up to.

“Okay, I’m going to be surrendered, I’m going to be separate, sober self-assessment. I think I got that down. I’m going to serve in love and…let’s see, I can’t remember the last one…supernaturally respond to something with something.” And you can turn it into the very thing we’re trying to avoid.

And so I want to remind you that true spirituality has nothing to do with living a good life so that God will love you. True spirituality has everything to do with beginning to grasp the height and depth and length and breadth of how much God has already loved you, has demonstrated that love, and you living out of the freedom of that love.

And so I just put the little chart of the entire book of Romans. What did he do? Chapters 1 through 3, all of us fall short of the glory of God. We sugarcoat this. This isn’t just being “not a nice person”. We have sinned. We’ve betrayed God. We’re people that have committed treason and He’s holy and His just wrath is upon us for what we have done. And that’s the problem.

In chapters 4 and 5, there’s a solution. The solution to the sin is salvation. Jesus, fully man, fully God, lived a perfect life, died upon the cross to pay for your sin and rose from the dead and offers a free gift to whosoever would believe and receive it.

Chapters 6 through 8 goes on to talk about how this new life is lived and He didn’t leave us alone, it wasn’t a moral code, “Try hard.” He said, “The Spirit of the Living God in the new covenant will take up residence inside your mortal body.” After He takes you out of the kingdom of darkness, He places you in the kingdom of light. His Spirit takes up residence, and the living presence of Christ and the power of Christ by the Word of God and the community of God’s people births.

Literally, Paul talks about “until Christ is formed in you”, and that’s called sanctification. And it’s a journey, and often it’s two steps forward and three back and then four steps forward. But you grow.

And then finally, he reminded them that God always keeps His promises. So chapters nine through 11, His promises to the Jews will be fulfilled; that they fumbled the ball in terms of their responsibility as a blesser and an instrument of God. So He says, “I’m going to take them out of the game and I will fulfill everything I made promises to Abraham and to David, but the Church is going to be My agent of blessing until I call timeout and bring the very final days of history to a close.”

And after 11 chapters of, regardless of where you’ve been, God loves you, died for you, puts His Spirit inside of you and will keep every promise– “Therefore I urge you, brothers,” to what? “Offer your bodies a living sacrifice.”

Have you ever placed your faith in Christ personally to forgive your sin? Because what I’ve seen over and over is people just unconsciously think “I’m trying hard to be this good person” and it’s interesting and they begin to experience some change. But what sometimes they never realize is you need, on a certain day, at a certain time, to be born from above or to be born again.

And that’s back in chapter 3 and the beginning of chapter 4 and where you come to God on a day like today and you just honestly admit, “God, I need Your help. I’ve violated a Holy God. Today, I believe Your blood paid for my sin and Your resurrection proved it’s true and on this day, I want to ask You to come into my life forever, to forgive me and to be my Father.”

And if you’ve never done that, that’s the smartest, wisest, best thing you’ll ever do.