Uninvited Guests

Why are issues like divorce, infidelity, rebellion, and discord so prevalent in our homes today? In this message, Chip Ingram reveals a startling truth: Satan is actively at work to destroy the sacred institutions of marriage and the family. Learn how to protect your most cherished relationships from the subtle lies that have destroyed others, so you can be the parent and spouse God has called you to be.

Every couple will tell you that there are days when you are not on the same page with your mate, or someone says something rude or insensitive. And in those vulnerable moments when you feel hurt or disconnected, you start to hear a subtle whisper: “You are falling out of love” or “You made a mistake marrying that person.” In this message, Chip calls out these deceitful thoughts and reveals how they undermine your relationship. Hear what you can do to safeguard your minds and prioritize reconciliation when conflict arises.

For decades, society has viewed a couple living together as a necessary step for any serious relationship — almost like a down payment for marriage. How else are two people able to demonstrate they are committed to one another or that they are compatible on a sexual, emotional, and mental level? In this message, Chip Ingram tackles the controversial topic of cohabitation. Learn what popular research and God’s Word say on the topic, and why the institution of marriage is worth preserving.

When you and your colleagues approach a big assignment, it is perfectly reasonable to split the work up evenly, so everyone has their fair share to do. But can this same principle also apply to marriages? In this message, Chip Ingram explains why a 50/50 type of agreement between spouses does not work. Discover the level of commitment the Bible calls husbands and wives to, and what it looks like to adore your mate through service.

Do you know a friend whose marriage is failing, and they have said, “This should not be this hard. I wonder if it is worth all of this heartache.” In this message, Chip Ingram exposes the false narrative that couples have believed about hardships and marriage. Discover the powerful truths that will encourage you and your spouse to confront challenging times together, rather than allow them to drive a wedge between you.

Life in the typical household today can feel a bit overwhelming. There is always laundry to do, bills to pay, meals to prepare, and busy schedules to juggle; so how do you decide who handles each responsibility? In this message, Chip provides some clarity and insight into this critical issue. Join us to uncover what the Bible says about the roles of husbands and wives in the family–the answer may surprise you!

Have you ever made an innocent comment to your spouse, only to have them snap or blow up at you? And you are left wondering, “What just happened? Why did they respond that way?” Well, in this message, Chip explores the underlying insecurities and lies that can spark these responses. Join us to get a glimpse into the heart and mind of your mate, so you can better understand, love, and appreciate who they are.

Marriage is a sacred institution established by God back in the Garden of Eden. Since then, Satan has been on a mission to destroy that relationship, through powerful lies and half-truths that pervert and sabotage what God intended. In this message, Chip unpacks the fundamental truths of a God-honoring marriage that thwart Satan’s schemes. By embracing these scriptural principles, you can strengthen the bond with your mate and deepen your connection with your Creator.

One of the most captivating yet misleading phrases throughout literature is: And they lived happily ever after. While it is entirely natural to desire a successful relationship, the real danger lies in the misbelief that marrying the right person will guarantee a worry-free relationship. In this message, Chip confronts this prevalent myth about marriage and invites us to consider what it takes to be fully committed to someone for a lifetime.

What if the secret to a thriving marriage is not rooted in big, grand gestures of affection, but in daily, intentional decisions to love your mate? In this message, Chip dives deeper into this subject by challenging husbands and wives to learn each other’s love language. He stresses that by becoming students of our mates, we uncover how to specifically and sacrificially cherish our spouse, in the ways they genuinely want to be loved.

What does it take to have a great marriage? Not just an okay one that is barely surviving, but a relationship that is vibrant and life-giving? In this message, Chip begins highlighting three fundamental skills that define great marriages. Learn how to practice these habits and you will not only deepen your connection to your mate, but also strengthen your relationship with God.

Communication is the highway on which love travels. Sounds good but where’s the on-ramp? In this message, Chip takes a candid look at communication. If you want to learn how to improve the communication in your marriage, to share hearts instead of just exchanging words, this one’s for you.

What is the single biggest source of conflict in your marriage right now? Children? A job loss? Money? In-laws? How would you like to get that resolved in a way that nobody gets hurt? In this message, Chip teaches you how to fight fair in marriage.

Peers and pop culture exert a never-ending pressure on kids. Parents often feel helpless, as every godly principle they teach their children seems to be contradicted by the corrupt principles of this defective world. But the good news is, God has a plan for effectively raising your children and you can learn from it. Packed with practical advice, this series will give struggling parents a vision for their children’s future and life-changing help for today, as he shares how you can raise positive kids in a negative world.

How do you know if you’re a good parent? How do you measure that? In this message, Chip will give you three simple indicators that will help you develop your child’s full potential and measure your parenting effectiveness.

Our kids are facing a world that is hostile, difficult and painful. They’re in a battle for their life whether it is sex, drugs, alcohol, peer pressure or just the world system. The question is how do you help your child survive? In this message Chip shares the biblical priorities of effective parenting and how to help your kids win their toughest battles.

Discipline is a necessary aspect of our lives. For some of us it conjures up negative memories and harsh experiences and we don’t want that repeated with our own kids. But how do we actually discipline in a godly manner that benefits our children? Chip has a game-plan for how to respect and effectively discipline our children.

How can parents sensibly guide their sons and daughters in our constantly changing world? What steps should Christian moms and dads take as their kids encounter society’s warped ideas about sex, relationships, and gender? In this message, Chip delves into this vital topic through his riveting conversation with best-selling author and Christian apologist Sean McDowell. Together, they share a practical game plan for parents to have meaningful conversations with their children, reminding us all that personal challenges are not the result of bad parenting. Learn how to help your sons or daughters anchor their faith in God’s Word and avoid being influenced by the whims of culture.

As kids transition into adulthood, the parent-child relationship experiences a significant shift from one of direct authority to one of mutual respect. In this message, Chip delves into this new dynamic as he interviews Jim Burns, author of the book “Doing Life with Your Adult Children.” They highlight the boundaries parents must set to avoid intruding in their kids’ lives while still empowering their independence. Learn how to navigate this complex new chapter and foster a healthy, God-honoring adult-to-adult relationship.